Speaking

Carly’s presentations are designed to appeal to diverse audiences of individuals with the goal of improving school and community safety. This includes stakeholders such as school and district staff, emergency managers, government officials, first responders, mental health professionals, and parents. Presentations can be tailored in time, between 1 and 3 hours, depending on your event needs and intended audience. Presentations also can be tailored for different types of events, such as general sessions, breakouts, panel discussions, professional development days, and community events. Descriptions of available presentations are provided below. For more information or to inquire about Carly speaking at your upcoming event, please contact us.
Available Presentations
Anticipating the Unthinkable
Carly shares her family’s personal experience during the Sandy Hook tragedy, reflecting on what went both wrong and right that day. Drawing from this deeply impactful event, she provides practical solutions for school and community safety, reunification, and recovery—emphasizing the critical need to prepare for the unthinkable. With a focus on building strong relationships and achieving positive outcomes, Carly offers actionable strategies that schools and communities can implement to enhance safety and resilience.
Reunification
Carly shares lessons learned from the Sandy Hook Firehouse on Dec. 14th, 2012. She shares the importance of having a plan and the impact reunification has on recovery.
Recovery in the Aftermath of Sandy Hook
Carly shares her family’s ongoing recovery journey, highlighting the importance of mental health, resilience, and building strong relationships. She reveals how strategies implemented in their children’s classrooms and at home have supported their healing, helped them navigate difficult times, and cultivated a lasting sense of hope and optimism.
The Foundation of Safety: Culture and Climate
Carly highlights the crucial role that culture and climate play in building safe school communities. Through her presentation, she offers practical strategies to foster and enhance a culture of safety. Carly will inspire individuals at every level to make a meaningful impact in their environment and empower all members of your community to contribute to a safer, more connected school culture.
Multi-Speaker Presentations
When the Unthinkable Happens: A Mother and Son’s Journey of Survival and Strength
Speakers: Carly Posey, Reichen Posey
In this deeply personal and emotional presentation, a mother and her son share their story of surviving the Sandy Hook tragedy—one from inside a first-grade classroom, the other from the heart of every parent’s worst fear. Together, they open up about the unimaginable day that changed their family forever and how they’ve worked, side by side, to heal, rebuild, and find purpose in the years since.
From the son’s perspective, hear what it was like to be just seven years old, facing fear no child should ever know, and the long road of recovery that followed. From the mother’s side, experience the terror of waiting, the overwhelming relief of reunion, and the complex journey of guiding a child—her other children–and herself—through
trauma and grief.
Together, they share what has helped them most: the power of community, the importance of mental health support, and how hope can slowly return, even after the darkest moments. They reflect on what it means to truly protect our children—not just with secure buildings and safety drills, but with care, connection, and the courage to prioritize well-being in our schools.
More than just a story of survival, this is a story of love, resilience, and the determination to make sure no other family has to endure what theirs did. This presentation is a call to action to come together, to listen, and to build schools and communities that are not only prepared but deeply committed to supporting every child and every family—every single day.
Attendees will leave with a renewed belief in the strength of the human spirit, practical insights for creating safer, more compassionate schools, and a reminder that even after tragedy, healing and hope are possible.
Resilience in the Face of Tragedy: Lessons from Sandy Hook Survivors
Speakers: Carly Posey, Reichen Posey, Natalie Hammond
In this powerful and deeply moving presentation, hear from a former first grade student, a parent, and an administrator as they share their unique perspectives on surviving the Sandy Hook tragedy. These survivors share their personal stories of survival, loss, and resilience. Each speaker reflects on the impact of that tragic day, the challenges they faced in the aftermath, and the journey they have taken to heal, and find strength.
Through their stories, the survivors discuss the lessons they have learned about grief, courage, and the power of community support. They highlight the importance of mental health awareness, advocacy for safer schools, and the role of hope in overcoming
unimaginable adversity.
In addition to their personal journeys, the survivors share critical insights on school safety, discussing what they believe can be done to better protect students and teachers. They explore topics such as the importance of emergency preparedness, mental health resources in schools, and creating a culture of awareness and support to prevent future tragedies.
This presentation is not just a testament to their resilience, but also an inspiring call to action—urging individuals, educators, and communities to foster kindness, support one another, and work toward a world where tragedies like Sandy Hook never happen. Attendees will leave with a renewed sense of the human capacity for healing, perseverance, and the ability to transform pain into purpose, as well as practical insights into making schools safer for future generations.
Recent Speaking Engagements
Carly has presented to more than 200 agencies and organizations across the United States, including:
- Advanced Law Enforcement Rapid Response Training Conference
- Minnesota Governor’s Conference
- Indiana Department of Education Conference
- Maryland School Safety Conference
- Boys and Girls Club Annual Conference
- Virginia Center for Safe Schools Conference
- Department of Defense Education Activity Regional Training
- South Dakota School Resource Officer Conference
- Orange County New York Department of Emergency Services
- Will County Office of Emergency Management
- Santa Barbara Department of Education
- Douglas County School District
- Southeast Minnesota Region 1 Homeland Security and Emergency Management
- School Educators Police Liaison Association Conference – Michigan
- Metropolitan Washington Council of Governments – NCR Preparedness Conference
- Fort Collins Police Department
- Texas School Safety Center Conference
- Pitkin County Sheriff’s Office
- National Association of School Resource Officers Conference
- Western Placer Unified School District
- Illinois Association of School Boards
- In the Midst of Chaos Healthcare Conference
- Safer Schools Together International Guns and Gangs Conference
- Pediatric Priorities Healthcare Conference
- North Dakota School Resource Officer Conference
- Colorado School Resource Officer Conference
- Colorado Association of School Executives Conference
- South Carolina Law Enforcement Division
- Wisconsin Active Threat Integrated Response Conference
- Committee on Policing and Safeguarding Schools Conference
- Westlake Calvary Community Church
- Lutheran High School
- Spartanburg District 5

